Okusama 奥様

okusama means "wife." It's kind of synonymous with tsuma 妻, but that word is often used more literally, like a "wife," while okusama may be used to refer to a "wife" person, like "my wife" or "your wife."

Kanji

okusama okusama 奥様. It's written with the oku 奥, which means the "inner part" of something, or a deeper part in caves, etc.

The variant okusan 奥さん also exists. Obviously oku 奥 alone isn't used to refer to one's wife since it's already a word, "inner part." You need a honorific suffix, okusan, okusama, for it to mean "wife."

In hiragana:

• okusan おくさん
• okusama おくさま

Origin

The reason for the oku in okusama seems to be because, in the past, wives of nobility usually stayed in rooms deeper inside nobles' homes. (reference:

A related word would oooku 大奥, (yes, that's three o's), which would refer to the palace's inner chambers, the ladies' chambers, during the Edo period. In other words: the palace's harem, where the Shogun's wife, combines, and other related women stayed. (rumor is it it used to house thousands of women. Thousands! The shogun is the original harem MC!)

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Usage

okusama refer to one's wife. Plain and simple. Nothing very interesting about it. Note, however, that there are other terms that also mean kanai 家内, kamisan かみさん, etc. Even the word

In anime, it's common for servants, maids, butlers, etc. to use okusama to refer to the "wife" of the household. This usage is similar to the term okusama is the goshujinsama's wife.



In particular, in maid café, the staffers, maids, who usually address to clients as goshujinsama, may address to the woman in a couple of clients as the okusama.

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